Monday, 9 August 2010

day 1: my best friend.

twinsie, j.chau #1
I love him so much. He's awesome.
He's always been there for me, and he always makes me laugh. And he's special. :O
I don't know what I'd do without him.
I remember the awkwardness of when we met almost 2 years ago. We were really stupid and naive. Well, I was. I don't know about him. WE BECAME FRIENDS ON FACEBOOK. HAHAHAHA.
We're twins, but we were separated at birth. And now we've found each other. ♥♥

my prince ♥
Lubb forever. ♥
He's such a special person.
I've known him since 8th grade, but we've never really talked until Sophomore year.
And now we're best friends. :]
We became friends in the weirdest way possible. We were fighting each other with pipes. XD
Yeah. We don't fight with pipes anymore. We just roll around in bed.
Fun stuff.

Sunday, 8 August 2010

30 days.

I found this 30 days thing on someone's Tumblr. But as you know, I don't use Tumblr. So, I might as well just do it on this blog.

Day 1: Your Best Friend
Day 2: Your Crush
Day 3: Your parents
Day 4: Your sibling (or closest relative)
Day 5: Your dreams
Day 6: A stranger
Day 7: Your Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend/love/crush
Day 8: Your favorite internet friend
Day 9: Someone you wish you could meet
Day 10: Someone you don’t talk to as much as you’d like to
Day 11: A Deceased person you wish you could talk to
Day 12: The person you hate most/caused you a lot of pain
Day 13: Someone you wish could forgive you
Day 14: Someone you’ve drifted away from
Day 15: The person you miss the most
Day 16: Someone that’s not in your state/country
Day 17: Someone from your childhood
Day 18: The person that you wish you could be
Day 19: Someone that pesters your mind—good or bad
Day 20: The one that broke your heart the hardest
Day 21: Someone you judged by their first impression
Day 22: Someone you want to give a second chance to
Day 23: The last person you kissed
Day 24: The person that gave you your favorite memory
Day 25: The person you know that is going through the worst of times
Day 26: The last person you made a pinky promise to
Day 27: The friendliest person you knew for only one day
Day 28: Someone that changed your life
Day 29: The person that you want tell everything to, but too afraid to
Day 30: Your reflection in the mirror

Saturday, 7 August 2010

first bboy battle ♥

07 August 2010 ♥

I had my first bboy battle today at KinYoobi Con.

I'd like to say that I won, but it was a friendly n00b battle.

Thursday, 5 August 2010

gender vs. sex.

I got a question on my Formspring asking me the difference between gender and sex. I feel kind of bad, though, because it's taking me so long to answer that question. Sorry, whoever you are. ><

Anyways. Here's my answer.

Your sex is based on your reproductive organs. Your gender is a mindset. It's how you choose to act. In all the history books, they always talk about GENDER roles (not sex roles). Gender roles are "the socially constructed roles, behaviors, activities, and attributes that a given society considers appropriate for men and women" (World Health Organisation). I guess, if you really wanted a definition for the term "sex role," it would be whether you get to contribute sperm or get your egg fertilised. Although that may not always be the case now BECAUSE PROP 8 WAS DENIED. :D

There is also a difference between transgender and transsexual. Transgender is just when you feel like you're a guy in a girl's body or a girl in a guy's body. Like I said before, it's a mindset. Your gender really just depends on how you view yourself for the most part. A transsexual is someone who as went through surgery to change his or her reproductive organs completely. And by that, I mean REPRODUCTIVE organs. Not boobs. Boobs don't matter in this case. Someone with a penis and boobs (like, female boobs) is considered of the male sex because one's sex depends on his or her REPRODUCTIVE ORGANS.

Tuesday, 3 August 2010

love is pain...?

I've heard that line in at lest five different songs, and I'm tired of hearing it.

SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP

Everyone says love hurts, but that isn't true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt.

Fuck you, kpop singers.

Nah, I'm kidding. I lubb kpop singers! Especially Taeyeon. :]

Sunday, 1 August 2010